Hey look at that, another blog, how I missed these. Anyway. we got this lovely little quote here about confidence. Joy oh joy. currently, I just don't care about anything, which is just a giant boost of confidence. Except for the thing that has caused that, but that is personal and something that I will have to deal with, again. I don't really care if I wanted to change things, they have happened, it is too late to worry about that and just need to move forwards.
Link:https://www.kaplanprofessional.edu.au/blog/why-is-confidence-in-the-workplace-important-and-how-do-i-improve-mine/ Title:Why is confidence in the workplace important and how do I improve mine? Author: Not shown I honestly am not feeling this blog, or something, but, you know it gives you some tips. That could be helpful in the workplace. If I am being honest here, with my current situation that I'd rather not talk about, I don't want to make up some positive stuff. You can find this kind of article anywhere. They are a dime a dozen and yeah. I have seen these all over the place because of school, and I am honestly tired of it. This is probably a lot more negative then usual, but, that is just the mood I am in. Have a good day.
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Link: https://www.success.com/4-ways-to-truly-forgive-and-forget/
Title: 4 Ways to Truly Forgive and Forget Auther: Patty Onderko Well, this is one of those forgive and forget articles, nice little reminders and stuff. So, the first point is one I have plenty of experience with, considering my usually pacifistic views. The second point I also have experience with, since I usually forgive most everyone for a fault or something. Since the past is the past, as long as extremes weren't taken, than it good. The third one, I haven't done as much, well, I still do it. Though there is the fact that some people I'd rather not do that for. I don't look for meaning in every little offense. If I did that, I feel like I would go insane. There is one person that I am kind of refusing to forgive, no, that isn't right. It is more like, I have forgiven them, but I don't want to deal with them anymore, or talk to. It is a point that I refuse to clarify on, and I won't mention names, but, yeah. Signing off Articel: https://www.success.com/do-you-have-adaptability/
Title: Do you have Adaptability Author: Tony Alessandra Oh boy, this one actually seems to be interesting to me. So, what makes us adapatable. Well, one of them is flexibilty. Which is always good to have, they broke it down into five categories and, I got at least three of them. The ones I got was the tolerance, empathy, and respect for others. The other two are more iffy for me, since I am not normally positive or super confident in things. Anyway, moving onwards to the next one, versataility, which is not the best for me. I can maybe hit three on this, those being vision, resilence and competence, but the rest, I am not good with personally. I know that for sure. Being attentive and self correcting is not the best for me really... So, yeah, I am about a 50-60% flexible, not physically, but mentally? I guess. I figured that from the way I generally react to things. Article: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/stepping-outside-your-comfort-zone_n_5872638
Title: 6 Reasons To Step Outside Your Comfort Zone Author: Carolyn Gregoire So, I get to write more blogs. I am just shaking with joy. Anyway, the first one I like to point to is the, "Trying new things can make you more creative." I find this a little, I don't know what to say, but I find that a little too optimistic. I don't see it making you more creative, experienced, sure. Creative? No. Next one, "Embracing new challenges can help you age better." By the point I am gonna worry about my age in that sense, I will be alright in where I am, also, I don't care to have a large social base. Just way too much to effort to keep track of. Moving forward, "Challenging yourself can help you perform at your peak." This one, is mostly true, if you try to push yourself harder, you can get better, but there is many cases where that is not true, and challenging yourself has backfired. Finally, the last one, I personally agree with is, "But don't push yourself too hard." I am like this way, the problem is I do it too well. I can chill out so hard, I be unaware of much of anything. Kind of makes it harder to do things, but it works. For now. (https://www.podbean.com/media/share/dir-5tmy7-44a79de)This be the link to that podcast.
I chose the man, the legend. Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson. He is just a swell looking guy, I enjoyed his role in various movies and his role in WWE. I feel for the whole, used to talk trash kind of deal. I mean, everyone has done it at one point or another, but I had it bad, like, I had to go to anger management when I was younger bad. I have grown out of it now, I have chilled out a lot. I also get the whole, not being able to pretend to be happy. I don't know about these other people, but I am not known for master level deception and pretending to be happy, naw, I ain't about that life. My emotions are out in that moment. The be you thing, yeah, just got that under wraps. I know literally two lines ago I said that I wasn't master of deception, but I used to be. I used to not be me, I used to be what others wanted, I was clay, molding into what made others comfortable, and that was fine for me. I like being helpful for others, that is why for years, I wanted to go into human services, but yeah, people change, events happened. Here we are. The moments in the past when I think about it, and you are happy you didn't go down that path. I feel that, especially after the, what I like to call. The Friend Breaking of Junior Year. A lot of things happened, and well, I am happy with the path I chose and nothing else. I don't want to get more involved. This quotes are from (https://www.success.com/21-of-the-most-inspirational-quotes/). It was written by Lydia Sweatt.
From the Brian Buffini Show (https://www.podbean.com/media/share/dir-t77zz-3ffcbcb)
Anyway, I am gonna discuss about five things that connected to me, personally, heart to heart. So hearty Ol' Ronnie Reagan will cry. One that connected to me was that life is experimental, and trying to find that sweet spot. That is what me and my brothers struggle. So far, out of the three of us, only one has really found his calling. The we wer not made to work for a living, but the rest of it. It has been awhile, but, it hits hard, since I have only seen doing what you have to do. It just, clicks. You can have everything you want, if you help people. That is the gist of that one, and, well. I like to think I help people semi frequently. Also, the one about surronding yourself with quality people to get motivated is true. It really is, if you got people hyped with you, you want to do things. Than the focus on what I want to do and strengthen it, and develop strategic relationships, and stuff. I want to work on wanting to strengthen it, what I want, but I am very passive, working on it though. Well, looking at this list, I found three that I relate to, which is the one that listens more than you speak, the not seeking attention one, and I celebrate other people. I just generally listen more than I speak, that was just how I always am. I don't seek attention, I feel there is no real need for the stoplight. Than I celebrate other people by just being like, good job man, I proud of you, I am good at that simple stuff. I really enjoy the simple things in life
My thoughts on this are, to put it lightly, scattered. Part of me is like, oh boy, inspirational story #87, but another part of me is like, ow, this must actually kind of suck, if not now, than when it first happened. Anyway, two lessons I got from this...very purposefully emotionally charged story is that, hey, perserverence can get you places, just keep moving forward. Also, another cliche type of thing, but it is a cliche for a reason. Kindness leads to further kindness. The perserverence one helps you move forward in life, while the kindness one can get you into the good graces of people, and that is a good thing, I already understand that plenty.
This doesn't surprise me that the world is more sad now honestly. It is just how we are, each generation is expected to do more and more, and the worlds problems are on our shoulders from previous generations. I don't have a definitive solution on how to make the world happier, since there is no cure all out there to make people happy, but maybe the stress and the difficulty of doing anything makes it hard. Everything is harder to accomplish than it was so and so years ago. It would probably take someone rearranging society, and taking standards by the horns and pushing them down slightly. The expectations are higher and higher with the years.
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